General Dungeon Rules
and Protocol

1. As a comunity support confidentiality and discretion. Some of our community are open in their everyday lives as to their lifestyle interest, and some of our members have families and/or jobs which would be threatened if their sexual interest were advertised. We expect people's privacy and identities to be respected. Things that are seen at gatherings and/or play parties are expected to be private, and names of others should never be repeated. In order for our privacy and discretion to be maintained, we must make efforts to insure it so. If you did not attend a party or munch, do not ask what you missed. These things can get twisted and/or misinterpreted, and cause unrest within our precious family. Even joking about violating confidentiality can seriously distress members and will not be tolerated. We ask you please to help us to help ourselves in the interest of our community.

2. Touch is by permission only. For some people, something as simple as a hug might feel threatening, especially in a group where topics of a sexual nature are being discussed. If you haven't established an agreement with an individual, you need to ask permission before any form of touching. It is respectful to confirm with a submissive's Master/Mistress or Trainer before attempting to touch the submissive, be it male or female, if the submissive has a Master or Trainer. Do not assume that because you touched someone last month that it is still OK, always check, patience is a virtue, exercise it. Appropriate protocol is essential to keeping peace in the community.

3. No drugs or alcohol at any event will be tolerated. Very intimate subjects are being discussed, and sometimes alternative activities may take place. Both require as much clarity as we can muster. As for illegal substances, we hold that to endanger others with legal entanglement is unacceptable behavior and any use within the confines of the organization will guarantee immediate and permanent expulsion. Do not bring alcohol or illegal drugs to an event. Please leave alcohol and/or illegal drugs at home.

4. No minors are permitted to attend functions. No exceptions under any circumstances will be permitted. A minor is any person younger than 18/21 years of age depending on location.

5. It is OK for everyone to have an opinion, but it is not OK to make someone else's opinion wrong. Sexuality is a highly charged area for most people. Almost everyone has some area of sexuality that they are not comfortable to see or discuss. Welcome people of all genders, orientations and sexual interests. As a result, most people attending functions will sooner or later meet someone who's interests are in those areas of discomfort. Attendees at events must to realize that the discomfort is their own and that the other individuals are not wrong for their own sexual interests and desires. Furthermore, good order in the community is possible only when personal disputes are held in check. If you have a problem with another member, please take the matter to that person privately to resolve the matter. If that is unsuccessful, and only if the matter appears to violate the Rules, bring the matter privately to a member of the location your at. Organizers will tak action is if necessary. Bringing false or misleading accusations to the Board is a matter which requires organizational action. In the last resort, if the personal conflict cannot be resolved, walk away from the conflict in accordance with Rule 6. We are not here to mediate everyone's personal conflicts.

6. "The Opportunity To Leave" polocy. Each member be responsible for his or her own well-being. If any subject or demonstration makes someone uncomfortable, rather than stay and make others feel wrong, take the opportunity to leave. This may mean going outside for a few minutes, or leaving for the evening or longer. Because of the variety of subjects covered and the intensity of the subject matter, many people take the opportunity at some point or other, and are appreciated for exercising their personal responsibility rather than passing judgment.